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Each week I get a few emails with variations on a basic theme.  "Please," most of the emails begin, "I want to last longer."  My letter writers don't talk about lasting longer as if it's an easy problem to solve, but there is usually some urgency. They connect their inability to last longer (than what?  according to who?) to problems in their sex lives, their relationships, and sometimes their relationships with friends and colleagues at work.  I always start my response with the same question, which sounds rhetorical but isn't: what's the difference between lasting longer for sex, and sex that lasts longer?  The conversation goes from there.  ~  Cory

Someone forward you this email? No Sweat! Sign up here to get your own If you're having trouble viewing this email, click here Follow Us The Show Must Go On, and On, and On Each week I get a few emails with variations on a basic theme.  "Please," most of the emails begin, "I want to last longer."  My letter writers don't talk about lasting longer as if it's an easy problem to solve, but there is usually some urgency. They connect their inability to last longer (than what?  according to who?) to problems in their sex lives, their relationships, and sometimes their relationships with friends and colleagues at work.  I always start my response with the same question, which sounds rhetorical but isn't: what's the difference between lasting longer for sex, and sex that lasts longer?  The conversation goes from there.  ~  Cory Cory Silverberg Sexuality Expert Lasting Longer   Want sex to last longer?  Here are three questions you should ask yourself before you going out to buy that cream or self-help book. READ NOW Is It Him or Me?   Erections in some ways are like the canary in the coal mine.  Only you don't always know why the canary died.  I'm realizing now that this canary analogy doesn't have legs.  But the point is, erections change and it's no ones fault.  Still, you can become part of the solution if you choose. READ NOW Why Can't I Orgasm?   There are so many reasons why people have difficulty experiencing orgasm.  Here's a way of narrowing down what may be getting in the way for you.   READ NOW Sex Tip: Define Your Sexual Terms   In order to get what you want, you need to a) know what you want, and b) figure out some way to communicate that to a partner.  Scratch that, even without a partner, you need to admit what you want to yourself.  This sex tip can help.   READ NOW Featured Articles • 6 Mistakes You Need to Avoid During the Divorce Process • Everything You Need to Know About Ray Charles' Marriages • The Marriage of Susan and Don Meredith • Parental Alienation: Do You Know These 6 Signs? • A Touching Quote from Muhammad Ali on Friendship • Stupid Mistakes You're Making With Friends • How Girls Bully - Relational Aggression amongst Girls • Cheryl and Ron Howard beat the odds with their successful marriage. Advertisement About Sexuality  |  Follow Us You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to unsubscribe, please click here 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor, New York, NY, 10036 © 2015 About.com - All rights reserved. Privacy Policy.