Do Queer People Have Queer Sex?

It’s Pride Month and while the killings in Orlando are rightly turning our attention to the everyday and extreme violence experienced especially by black, brown, and Indigenous LGBTQ folks, I thought I'd take this week to consider the highs and lows, twists and turns and curlicues of queer sex.  This week we look at what we mean by queer sex, I answer a question from a young gay man who is surprised by his lack of erections, and we visit a library full of labia.  We end with a consideration of the best sex you’ve ever had.  ~  Cory

Someone forward you this email? No Sweat! Sign up here to get your own If you're having trouble viewing this email, click here Follow Us Do Queer People Have Queer Sex? It’s Pride Month and while the killings in Orlando are rightly turning our attention to the everyday and extreme violence experienced especially by black, brown, and Indigenous LGBTQ folks, I thought I'd take this week to consider the highs and lows, twists and turns and curlicues of queer sex.  This week we look at what we mean by queer sex, I answer a question from a young gay man who is surprised by his lack of erections, and we visit a library full of labia.  We end with a consideration of the best sex you’ve ever had.  ~  Cory Cory Silverberg Sexuality Expert What Is Queer Sex?   What I love most about this question is how it uncovers what might be a disturbing fact to many people:  we have no idea what any kind of sex is, really.   Of course what’s disturbing to some is exciting to others (and by others I really mean me). READ NOW What's to Love About Being Queer?   Author artist, and educator Vivek Shraya offers answers from 34 beautiful queer people in this funny, moving, and sometimes sexy documentary.   READ NOW Young, Gay, and Frustrated   "I am 22, gay, and I only recently started to have sex. There were so many factors contributing to me starting so late - according to friends, media and my ego - which were hindering but when I try something happens. I want to have sex so bad, and I will be really into a guy, but my penis will not get erect. I thought this was just a problem for older people or people who had health problems."   READ NOW Checking Out the Labia Library   An online resource from the Australian organization Women’s Health Victoria offers a catalogue like no other.  Read an interview with Jessica Malone, the head librarian at the Labia Library.   READ NOW What Is Optimal Sexuality?   What would happen if sex researchers and therapists stopped focusing only on what’s wrong with our sex lives and instead started researching those of us having amazing sex?  What would happen is a concept like optimal sexuality.  READ NOW Featured Articles • An Inside Look at the Marriage of Russell Yates and Laura Arnold • Shockingly Simple Marriage Hacks That Will Improve Your Relationship • The 9 Grossest Things a Guy Can Do On A Date • The 9 Grossest Things a Girl Can Do on a Date • Legal Abuse: When a Spouse Uses Family Court To Exact Revenge • Psst! Here's 6 Secrets to Divorceproofing Your Marriage • When Is It Okay To Fart In A Relationship? • Solid Financial Advice Married Couples May Not Want to Hear Advertisement About Sexuality  |  Follow Us You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to unsubscribe, please click here 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor, New York, NY, 10036 © 2015 About.com - All rights reserved. Privacy Policy.