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From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality
For people like me -- so called "pleasers" -- who put others needs and comfort before their own, the holiday season comes with a certain sense of redemption. This time of year we're encouraged to be giving and think about others before ourselves, which is validating since we do that all year round. It's true that putting others first isn't always best, and often it comes from a slightly misguided place. As a sex educator I like to emphasize the importance of each of us taking responsibility for our own pleasure. But that shouldn't exclude taking pleasure in giving pleasure - even if you're doing it for neurotic reasons. So take a moment today and read up on a few ways to make someone you love, or lust after, smile. ~ Cory

Mutual Masturbation
There's so much pressure on people to perform and be great lovers for their partner (setting aside their own needs or desires) that doing yourself with your partner or doing your partner as they'd do themselves or some combination of the two presents an interesting challenge to traditional sexual scripts. It can also be a whole lot of fun and a quick and easy sex fix.

How to Peg
It may sound like a holiday themed hobby, something you might be able to do while watching TV with the family, but that's a different kind of pegging. This pegging is the term (also known as "bend over boyfriend") that's developed for straight couples interested in turning the tables a bit on standard gender norms of who pitches and who catches.
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How to Tips for Edging
It's not a gardening tip in December, I promise.

How to Ask for Something New
Asking to try new sex things can be scary. And there's no guarantee your request will be received well. But there are a few things you can do to stack the deck in your favor.
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