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 | This is not the title of my forthcoming collection of erotica. And if I were to tell you this is how it feels in my pants, I wouldn't be trying to turn you on. No, these three words are the best I can do to describe the past month of weather we've been having, and their total effect on my libido has been decidedly unerotic. I always say that our sex life isn't just our sex life, it's part of our life, and it is always influenced by what's happening around us. Including the weather. How the weather effects our sex lives depends not only on the intensity of the weather (a few days of 90 degree weather isn't the same as losing your home to a forest fire or tornado) but also on us. Some of us love it hot, wet, and sticky. Some of us don't. ~ Cory | |
Making Water Wetter
I wouldn't exactly say that silicone lubes improve on nature since, a) I don't really know what we ever mean when we say nature, and b) I'm not sure it would actually be a good thing for water to be slippery. Still, with the advent of silicone personal lubricants all sorts of sex play in, around, and under water got a lot slicker. Whether it's a solo quickie in the shower or a lazy day by the lake, grab some silicone lube and watch the hot days slip by.
| Sex Without Moving (Much)
The sex therapist and researcher Helen Singer Kaplan described sex as "friction plus fantasy." It's a good line, but if it means that we always need both mental stimulation and significant physical movement, I'm not sure it's true. most of us have bodies that talk back to us during (or after) sex, and they aren't always happy with being forced into one of three positions and one of two movement patterns. Sex can be hot without creating extra unwanted heat. You just need to breathe.
| Sex Tips for the Rest of Us: Heat It Up, Cool It Down
This lateral thinking every day sex tip works no matter what temperature you like your sex at.
| The Original (and New) Magic Wand
Last week in sex toy news it was all about companies tearing each other down. This week's news is an example of how the good guys do sometimes win in the end, and how every one can benefit when they do.
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