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Sexuality Sexuality Sex Tips Talking About Sex Sexual Health From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality A popular sex educator and television personality I once worked for used to warn people against threesomes precisely because she thought that, while they might start out fine, they would inevitably lead to people peeing on each other (her example, not mine). I always lovingly disagreed with her on this point. But she wasn't the only person I've heard this theory from. It's the theory of "gateway sex". ~ Cory Gateway Sex A reader writes: My girlfriend wants to go to a fetish party. She's interested in exploring BDSM and I'm not against it but was raised with religion and I'm not sure how far I would go. If I start, is it hard to stop, and what if I don't like where it leads? My response How Do You Decide When Sex Is a Problem? When does a sexual desire turn into a sexual problem? If you're in a relationship and you and your partner want different things, who compromises? Whose the one labeled as difficult, wanting too much, or not enough? There are all sorts of objective definitions of sexual dysfunction, but how do you know when sex becomes a problem in your life? How to Suggest a New Sexual Activity to a Partner Whether your in a brand new relationship or one that's twenty years old, suggesting you and your partner try something new can leave you feeling vulnerable, naked before you even get naked. Here are seven tips on suggesting something new and making the process feel a bit less scary (no guarantees on the outcome, of course!) Is Technology Ruining Sex? From sex drugs to teledildonics, is our increasing interest in (some might say reliance on) technology in the bedroom making sex less human? Featured Articles Find Non Latex Condoms Follow About Sexuality on Twitter! Is Anal Sex Bad for My Body Sex Toys for Couples Sexuality E-Course: Weekly Sex Position 9 Weeks to Better Sex   More from About.com Plan a Unique Vegas Wedding The minister, music and champagne are just the beginning -- why not get married aboard a helicopter or have a pirate swing in to deliver your rings? Arrrr! More> Join About.com's User Panel! Share your opinions and help us make About.com more relevant, informative and enjoyable to use. More> This newsletter is written by: Cory Silverberg Sexuality Guide Email Me | My Blog | My Forum   Sign up for more free newsletters on your favorite topics You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the About Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to change your email address or unsubscribe, please click here. About respects your privacy: Our Privacy Policy Contact Information: 249 West 17th Street New York, NY, 10011 © 2010 About.com   The Anatomy of Sex Anatomy of Intercourse Where's the G Spot? Where's the Prostate? Advertisement