 | Last week's newsletter focused on consumer goods. But the best sex gift you can give, to yourself or to someone you lust for or love deeply, isn't something you can buy in a sex shop, read about in a self-help book, or pick up from a workshop. Anyone with money can buy a vibrator, and anyone with money, time, and a particular kind of co-ordination, can "give a blow job like a pro". If you're looking for something to give that's rare, think of the things that only you can give. You can make someone feel loved and lusted after. You can do that, any of us can do that. We need the love or lust to give, and that's not a small thing, but it's crucial to learn (or re-learn) that it's ours to give. If you hesitate to believe me, thinking it seems too easy or that the object of your love or lust won't notice, all I can say is try it. If you dig deep, and find a sexual thought or feeling that feels true and loving, and you put it out into the world, it can be more orgasmic than twelve Tantras buzzing, more explosive than a eleven vibrators whirring, more...well you get the idea. I hope you give it a try. ~ Cory |
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