| | Last week I was reading a press release of a study about drug use and sexual functioning. But rather than just say that, the release relied on the tired phrase "sexual performance". Reading it used over and over again I began to think that it's being used as a metaphor, only I don't think the people using it realized that. Which brings us to this week's newsletter theme, talking about, and having, sex, with and without metaphors. ~ Cory | | Your Favorite Sexual Metaphors Is sex a performance? Is it a game? Is it a mountain? Is it a milkshake? For all sorts of reasons - educational, artistic, ethical - we may resort to metaphors when describing sex. So why do we usually use such bad ones? | Describing Sex Without Metaphors I was recently talking with my nephew about sexuality and he asked a great question: how do you know what sex feels like without having it? It reminded me that a while back I had a similar question from a much older person, and here's my attempt to answer it. | Sylvia Hacker, 1922 - 2013 Taking a moment to acknowledge the passing of sexologist and "outercourse" advocate Sylvia Hacker. | How to Have Bad Sex After more than 20 years a sex educator I still draw a blank when it comes to generalizations about what makes sex great. But I have a pretty good idea of how to have really bad sex. Here's ten of them. | | | | | | Sign up for more free newsletters on your favorite topics | | | | You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the About.com Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to change your email address or unsubscribe, please click here. About.com respects your privacy: Our Privacy Policy Contact Information: 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor New York, NY, 10036 © 2012 About.com | | | | Must Reads | | | Follow me on: | | | | Advertisement | |
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