About Sexuality: Sex: Before and After

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Sexuality Sexuality Sex Tips Sex Talk Sex Toys From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality This week I answer a question from a woman who was married for 25 years to the only man she ever had sex with. Now she's divorced and wondering about "getting back to sex." It made me think of the way we make sex normal by pretending there are times for sex and times when sex is unexpected or unusual. I'm not sure what we base this on, as there's no actual data that tracks our sexual activity throughout our lives, in and around specific rites of passage. I think pretending there is a predictable or "normal" course to our sex lives makes sex an easier thing to think about, talk about and teach about. But that doesn't make it any more real or relevant to our actual sex lives. In honor of these deep thoughts, this week's newsletter features answers to reader's questions about sex near the beginning, in the middle, and right at the end of what they perceive to be their sex lives. ~ Cory Sex After You Move In Together Why sex sometimes disappears after you move in together, and where you should start looking for it. Search Related Topics:  sex advice  sexual desire  sexual problems Sex After Divorce "I was married for 25 years to the only man I ever had sex with. I am now divorced and horny as hell. I feel like I just missed the last 25 years of class, and I don't know where to start. Can you give me an update so I'm ready for what's to come?" Search Related Topics:  sex advice  divorce  dating Sex on a Wedding Night You know how they say it's always better to under promise and over deliver? It's sort of like that. Search Related Topics:  wedding night  sex in marriage  honeymoon sex Sex Near Death Justice looks like people deciding when sex matters and when it doesn't, even if their decisions seem morbid to others. Search Related Topics:  sex and palliative care  end of life  hospice care Related Searches Male Dysfunction Men and Health Attraction Men Female Health Low Libido Featured Articles Follow Me on Twitter! How Much Sex Does the Average Couple Have? Sex Definition: Frenulum Breve 9 Weeks to Better Sex Sexuality E-Course: Weekly Sex Position Sex Tip: Sexualize Something New   More from About.com 10 Easy Ways to Look Thinner Don't wait until you've lost those first pounds to make these simple, slimming changes. Read more...> Create a Shared Photo Stream Sharing your photo stream with friends and family is a great way to keep in touch. Read more...> This newsletter is written by: Cory Silverberg Sexuality Guide Email Me | My Blog | My Forum   Sign up for more free newsletters on your favorite topics You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the About.com Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to change your email address or unsubscribe, please click here. About.com respects your privacy: Our Privacy Policy Contact Information: 1500 Broadway, 6th Floor New York, NY, 10036 © 2012 About.com   Must Reads What Is Sex? Sex How Tos All About Orgasms Sex Toys 101 Sex Positions Pictures   Follow me on: Advertisement