| | Before the first time I kissed someone I couldn't imagine how it would ever happen. I knew enough to know that what I saw on TV and in movies wasn't real, or at least wasn't going to happen to me. I didn't wonder so much what sex was going to feel like (since I was engaging in a very active sex life on my own) I wondered how it would start. Initiating sex, being the person to get things going, is a lot of responsibility, and it remains a mine field for people in long term relationships who find themselves in a pattern where only one person ever tries, and even they eventually give up. This week I respond to a reader who is in this situation, and wants to get out. ~ Cory | | Help Me Help My Boyfriend! I have a problem. It feels like the only time my boyfriend & I have sex is when he initiates it. I've always been a little ashamed at times trying to start something with my boyfriend, but I havetried spicing things up by buying some sexy lingerie thinking that would help but now he tells me he likes T-shirt & panties. Can you please give me some tips?! I really need help!! | An Initiation Into Sexually Initiating A guide for the uninitiated into how to start initiating sex. Initially. | Keeping Desire Alive in Long-Term Relationships Author and sex therapist Esther Perel shares her insights on desire, erotic intelligence, and, as the title of her book puts it, mating in captivity. | What Does Sex Feel Like? It's a reasonable question, and one that exposes how much we don't talk about when we talk about sex. | | | | More from About.com | | | | | | Financial Emergencies An unexpected change in your financial situation can be incredibly stressful. Here's how to cope. More>
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