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 | The common fear of people not yet in long term relationships is that it's impossible to keep passion and great sex going when you've been together for a long time. It's a common complaint of people already in those relationships too. This week's newsletter was inspired by an About.com reader who was in such a relationship and who saw a way out, if only they could become more spontaneous in their sex life. Below I try to help and also wonder where the "out" is that they think their getting to. ~ Cory | |
The Trap of Spontaneous Sex
The desire that many couples in long term relationships express, to have more spontaneous sex, seems like sort of a trap. After all, if spontaneous sex means sex without planning or forethought, how can you ever plan to have more of it? The answer may lie in the definition.
| How to Increase Sexual Spontaneity
It's arguable that there is no such thing as completely spontaneous sexual behaviors. But that doesn't mean there aren't ways to change your sex life so that it includes more spontaneous sexual declarations, and more sex that feels surprising and driven by lust.
| Help Me Help My Boyfriend!
A reader writes: I have a problem. It feels like the only time my boyfriend & I have sex is when he initiates it. I've always been a little ashamed at times trying to start something with my boyfriend, but I havetried spicing things up by buying some sexy lingerie thinking that would help but now he tells me he likes T-shirt & panties. Can you please give me some tips?! I really need help!! Thanks, in advance, for any help!
| Taking the Reins: Tips on Initiating Sex
8 things you can do to get more comfortable with initiating sex.
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