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About Sexuality: Talking About the Hard Stuff

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From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality
If you opened this week's newsletter up expecting an issue all about erections, I'm sorry to disappoint. The hard stuff this week refers to those topics we can't imagine talking about with anyone (other than maybe someone whose job it is to hold our secrets). It was inspired by a post in the About Sexuality forum from someone with a wetlook fetish who doesn't want to lose it but also doesn't know how to talk to his wife of 10 years about it. Fetishes aren't the only sexual secrets we keep; from our partners, from our healthcare providers, from ourselves. And secrets aren't always a bad thing to have. Sometimes we need to keep secrets to survive. But sometimes telling secrets is a matter of survival too, and that's what this week's newsletter is about. ~ Cory

What Makes You Hot
Telling a partner about a fetish you have can feel like an impossibility. For some people the longer the secret is kept, the harder it is to imagine ever sharing it. It feels like the response will be betrayal piled on betrayal. And in the end, what if they give you an ultimatum; the fetish or me?
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What's Your Number?
A much earlier expectation of disclosure in relationships is talking about the number of sex partners you have had. And here too, the question of how much truth to tell, and when, is key.

What They Think and What You Know
Telling your partner that you want more sex or less sex is hard to do. If they think you're happy with the sex you are having, then this new information may take some time to digest. But consider the possibility that neither of you are happy, and that one of you has to be the first to speak up.

Sex and Death
How do you talk about sex with someone who spends most of their time talking about dying? This is one of the things that makes asking health care providers questions about sexuality when you or your partner is near the end of their life. But sexuality has a place at the end of our lives just as it does throughout our lives.

 



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